Why Baby Don't stop crying?

Salam..

As for now Fatiyyah is nearly 9 months old. Another 6 days. Cepatnya masa berlalu! Dengan kehadiran pembantu rumah memang meringankan beban aku. Antara tugasan lainnya adalah menjaga Fatiyyah. Bila ada orang jaga Fatiyyah aku boleh sangat fokus terhadap kerje aku. Tapi cabaran membesarkan anak di usianya 8 - 9 bulan adalah she's don't want to be with someone else except myself. -_-" So I read a lot to figure out this thing and end up aku rasa sangat touching. Sobs.

Sometime around 6 months, babies get worried about being around people that they don't see everyday. You may see your baby's "disengagement cues" at the very first sight of friends and relatives. She may cling to you frantically and cry if anyone else tries to hold her. Even though this reaction may be inconvenient and sometimes embarrassing, it is an important step for your baby. Stranger anxiety signals two good things. First, your baby has decided that you represent a safe haven for her. Second, your baby is probably gaining physical skills that allow her to move away from you like rolling, creeping, and crawling. Her anxiety ensures that she doesn't move too far away from those who will protect her. As she improves her skills to explore her world, her instincts tell her to stay close. Stranger anxiety doesn't completely go away but lessens by the time babies are 18 to 24 months old.

Tulisan biru is something that so touching, tulisan merah is require patient and skills.  

SITUASI 1

Ketika berada di nutriwalk, aku selalunya akan dokong Fatiyyah dan invite orang untuk naik kelab for Free body analysis, etc. Tapi sekarang since ada bibik, aku boleh tinggal Fatiyyah kat atas dan fokus on helping people kat bawah. Seriously, I'm not use to hearing she's crying, because she would be with me 24/7. -Fatiyyah menangis sampai sedu-sedan and to be honest I'm crying inside. Tahan je nangis nampak kuat.

Ikutkan hati memang nak nangis kat situ juga rasanya. Hari pertama nangis memang mendayu-dayu, kind likes she's begging me to take her.. "maaammmmaaa"..addaaadaadaa".. Macam tu la bunyinya lebih kurang.

Air mata memang berjujuran. Kalau naik kelab sampai ada club member komen , dah macam kat nursery,hihi.

merajuk sampai tertidur, nak macam tu je! huhu

SITUASAI 2

Biasalahkan, orang Herbalife ni tak habis-habis dengan training dan events. Its really challenging if events is at hotel. Last Sunday kat Marriot Hotel Putrajaya. The first 2 hour is supervisor training. Aku sampai dah lambat 9.30. Hari kedua ada progress sikit, 40 minit pertama fatiyyah tak nangis, tapi selepas 40minit sehingga ke petang she's cry nonstop each time aku bagi dia kat bibik.

Seriously it test my patient, skill as mother,malu pon ada juga. Especially bila orang yang belum kahwin dan belum ada anak nengok anak aku nangis macam tu mesti korang rasa, kesiannya... Trust me, my heart is event melt see her crying, but I have to train her.

Aku rasa satu Marriot hotel tu kenal Fatiyyah -__-".

Yes, Fatiyyah attitude," I want what I want! I want my mummy!" hoho.

Sekarang ni, nangis takde air mata, ade bunyi je.

Itulah cabaran menjadi ibu bapa especially young parents. Kepada yang baru berkahwin, atau akan berkahwin atau sedang mengandung, ketahuilah membesarkan anak tidak mudah, ia menuntut ihsan dan sayang tanpa syarat, kerana ia anugerah Allah yang sangat berharga!

Sekian.